LOVE … a word which leaves a cute smile on our face.. a word which gives meaning to our life..
When you start liking some one you feel that your life is changing.. you always like to be around of that person.. your heart beats quite fast when you see that person..
Relationship at the beginning stage and at the later is very much different… but in the changing time u should always try to maintain your relationship instead of giving up.. here are the certain keys which i want to share with you to keep your relationship healthy..
1. COMMUNICATION: Communication is very much important to keep walking on the road of relationship.. no matter how the other will feel.. just share all the things which is running inside your mind.. and your heart too.. never feel shame.. just be free with your partner.. be a friend of your partner..
2. CARING: Some people have nature of not showing of what they feel for their partners and how much do they really care of them. but it is necessary to show that u care for them.. their whole world resides within u so don’t behave in a way as if you really don’t care. Always try to impress your partner by doing the things which your partner has not expected form you.
3. RESPECT: What you think is not always right. It is not necessary that the way you think ,your partner will think in a same way.. always respect what your partner is thinking.. what he is feeling.. and never force them to do something that is against their self respect.
4: POSSESSIVENESS: When u start falling in love with your partner more and more.. you will get possessiveness in your nature even if you don’t want.. till a limit it is good for your relationship as it shows how much your partner loves you but too much of possessiveness can ruin your relation.. your partner will start feeling as if he is bounded in this relation. never make your partner feel that he is bounded in this relation. you should give freedom to your partner but not that much that he likes more to live in that space rather than with you.
5. LISTEN: Human nature, we don’t have habit of listening what other are saying to us.. we always want others to listen us.. listen what your partner wants to tell you..
6. NEVER STICK TO FIGHTS: In many relationship it may happen that when there is a fight between partners they wont speak to each other till many days.. and then after few days problem is solved and everything will be just like before.. but instead of not talking with each other for so many days solve problem immediately.. you are going to solve it later also then why not just now..??
7. CHANGES: When you get matured your way of thinking.. your expectations from your partner will change and it may happen that you wont be able to understand all these changes in your partner because you are habituated with the way he was.. try to accept that change.. and you should also change accordingly.
8.HONESTY:You always expect that your partner should be honest with you and should never ever lie to you ,for that you too have to be honest with them. but if you are lying when you want to give surprise that’s the other thing ;) Honesty will help you to win your partner’s trust on you.
leave a reply if you too have some keys to keep relationship healthy.. and if you want to share something about relationship
For me love and relationship is a lifetime promise, to be of someone is a great feeling, fall in love once truly and you will be in heaven for sure and never ever play with some one’s emotions, you never know in future you can be in place of that person :P ;)